If it has never happened to you, you might've heard someone saying there is someone or some people who dislike them for no reason. And that does happen.
When it does, you will exhaust all options trying to figure out what could be the reason especially if you've never had an encounter with those individuals.
There are various reasons why someone may dislike you for a reason you do not know. However, no matter the reason(s); in these situations, you shall keep in mind that it has NOTHING to do with you.
Generally, someone will dislike you based on what others say about you to them. They get an impression about who and what you are from a source and the information they receive is the reason, whether true or not. They would automatically dislike you based on hearsay.
You may be disliked for having what others do not have or are envious of. For example, I remember when growing up, we used to call all the kids from financially stable families "mama's boys" or "cheese boys". And these terms had derogatory intentions behind them and led to us disliking those kids. Often ostracising them. This was pure envy. We were envious of what their parents could do for them which ours couldn't.
Furthermore, kids from stable families with both parents also would get disliked for no reason. Many boys tend to dislike and often bully those who have present fathers because theirs aren't. This is also just envy that is directed at the wrong person. And happens quite often.
People do not dislike you for no reason, they do have reasons but all those reasons have nothing to do with you. It is a reflection of their own lives.
This is not only related to material things. There may be someone who has way more than you have and yet still dislikes you.
Some may dislike you because you have a more hotter girlfriend, or have a handsomeer boyfriend.
For others, you may remind them of their exes, or people who once hurt them because you may be a look-alike of that person.
The reasons can be petty and astonishing.
To at least figure out the reason (if you're really interested) try to analyze both your lives in comparison. The deeper you go into your analysis you may get the reason why. And it always has nothing to do with you. Provided, you are truthful enough to know that you had no encounter that could push them to feel how they feel about you.
We cannot ignore the fact that some individuals will claim others dislike them for no reason when in fact they have done or said hurtful things to others.
This is purely about those who are truthfully being disliked for no reason.
So, in all you do and your encounters with those who dislike you, you ought to understand that it has nothing to do with you. On that account, never be bothered. Just be careful of how you move around those people, and try to dissociate yourself from them as much as you can. For your own sake.
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